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craigj

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is it bad that iv liked a girl for 7months,
and shes liked me she just keeps saying that she doesnt know what she wants which is fair-o
but shes off fukin and hookin up with other guys..
and it gets to me...
how can she even do that after all wev been thru.

we havnt dated but were so close or was.

and it ****ed my head up and i wasnt even with her?
still gets to me even now.
 

^G0trex

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Kay this isn't a walk-in clinic. :P

Don't waste your time with people like that though...whenever anyone says "I don't know what I want", it means they want to shag around.
 

Toddwhite

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If the temptation is there then it's obvious your relationship isn't 100% perfect, which isn't a bad thing, it's just I wouldn't make long term plans with somebody who's cheated on me.

i was in a perfect relationship and was still tempted, so that bloocks.

if u see a fit girl, ure programmed to want to sleep with her to produce fit offspring.

Evolution works thaty way.

End of the day only reason i dont do it, is because i care enuf about the person that i dont want to upset them,

.gw

is it bad that iv liked a girl for 7months,
and shes liked me she just keeps saying that she doesnt know what she wants which is fair-o
but shes off fukin and hookin up with other guys..
and it gets to me...
how can she even do that after all wev been thru.

we havnt dated but were so close or was.

and it ****ed my head up and i wasnt even with her?
still gets to me even now.

if shes shagging around, do same.

if thats not what u want, leave her.

if u act like a doormat she wont have any respect for you anyway.

/jk
 
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twisterdmk

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I've been in this relationship i'm in for almost 5 years now. I have done my fair share of stuff in life. Had more beep than a toilet seat. Simple fact is if you wanna be with someone and you get discouraged in anyway, take it as a sign it's time to move on. Break it off before you cheat.

But the fact is a vgina or pnis don't have a brain.
 

nicofortune

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i've been in a relationship for 3 years and me and my girlfriend are happy and would never cheat on each other.
 

liammc10

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is it bad that iv liked a girl for 7months,
and shes liked me she just keeps saying that she doesnt know what she wants which is fair-o
but shes off fukin and hookin up with other guys..
and it gets to me...
how can she even do that after all wev been thru.

we havnt dated but were so close or was.

and it ****ed my head up and i wasnt even with her?
still gets to me even now.


She doesn't like you she likes ur attention imo
 

Nightrider

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is it bad that iv liked a girl for 7months,
and shes liked me she just keeps saying that she doesnt know what she wants which is fair-o
but shes off fukin and hookin up with other guys..
and it gets to me...
how can she even do that after all wev been thru.

we havnt dated but were so close or was.

and it ****ed my head up and i wasnt even with her?
still gets to me even now.

Right then time for my life story, lol

I liked this gal called alice, we ****ed about for months even though she had a boyfriend, she split up with him about half a year later, got with me (all's good) were together for about 7 months, all was going good for about 5-6 months until i new summit wasn't right, i found out a month later that things had got difficult between us, i asked her what was goin on, she said nothing even though we were best friends before this i could tell summit wasn't right between us, but i got on with it, bout a month later i found out she'd lied to me about summit silly, i lost it, went into a rage she ****ed with my head that much.

Before me and al got together when i was seeing her behind her ex's back i know she was gettin with other lads and that got to me, thats why i never trusted her 100% in the end i was right not to trust her a lad text me about 2months back sayin he was sleepin with her, and i lost it there and then at work, walked out lucky to still have a job boss was understanding about it, when i finally found out who this lad was, he was saying he new nothing about it, then i met her one night and found out everything from her, at that point i lost it, i really can't remember the night as i was that angry, but it didn't end well for me, or others around me.

So the moral of my story, if ur chattin up a lass, she's shaggin other guys, u two can't be, the trust won't be there, Don't let it get to you that will eat you up inside, as i found out from personal expeirence, i know its easier said than done but try not to let it get to you.

Regards
Dan
 

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If anybody gets with somebody via cheating are utter goons.
 

liammc10

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Right then time for my life story, lol

I liked this gal called alice, we ****ed about for months even though she had a boyfriend, she split up with him about half a year later, got with me (all's good) were together for about 7 months, all was going good for about 5-6 months until i new summit wasn't right, i found out a month later that things had got difficult between us, i asked her what was goin on, she said nothing even though we were best friends before this i could tell summit wasn't right between us, but i got on with it, bout a month later i found out she'd lied to me about summit silly, i lost it, went into a rage she ****ed with my head that much.

Before me and al got together when i was seeing her behind her ex's back i know she was gettin with other lads and that got to me, thats why i never trusted her 100% in the end i was right not to trust her a lad text me about 2months back sayin he was sleepin with her, and i lost it there and then at work, walked out lucky to still have a job boss was understanding about it, when i finally found out who this lad was, he was saying he new nothing about it, then i met her one night and found out everything from her, at that point i lost it, i really can't remember the night as i was that angry, but it didn't end well for me, or others around me.

So the moral of my story, if ur chattin up a lass, she's shaggin other guys, u two can't be, the trust won't be there, Don't let it get to you that will eat you up inside, as i found out from personal expeirence, i know its easier said than done but try not to let it get to you.

Regards
Dan

By u getting with her while she has a boyfriend, proves that she has no problem cheating on people, that should of scared u off str8 away tbh lol.
 

Pottsy

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Every type of cheating, no matter how you sugar coat it is a bad thing lol.

If someone wanted to cheat on their other half with you, it's just as bad cause if you 2 got together, if she cheated on her ex, what makes you so sure she won't do it to you lol.

Best advise would be to stay away from any cheaters full stop :P If you like someone else, at least have the decency to break up with the other 1 first.

I also find it a nice thing to leave a certain gap between new and old g/f's lol. E.g. my ex for just over a year, i actually met someone about a week later, but put it on hold for a few more weeks out of respect to my ex as we ended on good terms, so didn't want her to think that the 1 year didn't mean anything lol.

But yeh....cheating sucks, being on the receiving end of it once before, it doesn't feel that great and it's not something i'd wish on anyone (Unless of course they're cheaters themselves)