I think that was apocs first mistake, discussing the state of the server with the village idiot.
I don't think that is fair at all.
You cannot blame someone that feels they have been lied to and received a number of different reasons/excuses from different members of the server team to not feel a little unhappy and express that dissatisfaction.
The issues I see, is that the server team have 1 MAIN coder, he had exams during beta stage 3 so everything important ended up on a long long list.
Now that exams are done I'm sure said person has now entered the real world and Is working or searching for work.
The problem i see is that people are expecting a dedicated server team 24/7 this will never happen on a server worth playing because all the good coders (the ones that make new stuff abd fix big issues) all have jobs and cannot give the server that much time. I would not be surprised at all if dayidie or whatever his name was only puts 10% of the time he used to while between lectures at Uni now that hes in the real world.
End of the day, the server has promising features, some strong but busy server staff and some server staff that cant do much more than edit a ready made drop file but are along for the ride,
An advertised beta was too early but a secret one would have caused further corruption comments from people like me. one thing for sure is that a testing period was clearly required as the server has been "in work" ever since.
I hope they manage to complete the server and dedicate enough time to managing it effectively but i very much doubt its going to have the support required with such a small team trying to live their lives and run a server.
You see it regularly with chronicles. they have a bigger team and more coders but they move house, go on works do's take holidays, have children, wives and lives.
people expect too much from these sort of things.
give them time to finish the server then hope and pray that they can dedicate enough time to running it so that your time and effort was well invested.
Ill be waiting for month 6 before I even log on to take a look as my time is precious these days with all of the above commitments.