Hello Xentha,
There is nothing wrong with using the Server Starter, it works perfectly fine and in most cases does a damn better job at configuring the IP addresses than the user. The reason for your verification error is because you still have one of the IP addresses set wrong (or the path in BDE Admin is wrong). Use the server starter to make all the IP's 127.0.0.1, and check your BDE Admin's HeroDB path.
As for the socket error, just ignore it and use a better version of frontend
/Leo