@ drugz. Ya you mite have said how to do it and I did say to you I have people that help me to do things. Not to be funny I don't know you.
Fair enough, but seriously mate, if your serious about your server and people are willing to help you, my advice, take it

I understand this is your first server, hell we have all been there, but with a lot of help off people from the LOMCN community I managed to get Insane server on (until I gave it to The Boss to run) and I was very happy to receive as much help as I needed

If some people offer you help at least listen to what they have to say and then make your own decisions on these 'helpful' people. Good luck with your server, I do hope that you learn and succeed.