When you know you have done somthing bad

[Zen2]

With some one elses girlfriend,

What do you do?

I feal abit guilty as she now says she wants me, Instead of the current boyfriend, I dont know the guy in person it just seems im going to be the cause of ruining his relationship.

What should i do LOMCN? Noone ever seems to ask for advice or support here, Theres a first time for everything i guess.

Should i just forget about her and find someone else and leave her to her current *unhappy* she claims relationship?

Or should i take her under my wing?

I feal bad, But at the same time good!!

What do you think / What would you do in this current situation?

Cheers

/Zen2

 

[Silent]

Personally i wouldnt get myself in that situation in the first place, however if i was in that situation id do the right thing and step away, she has to break up with him on her own accord once shes done that...then go for it.

 

[JoeAshton]

if she wants u tell here to finish with him first.


is he a big lad?

 

[^G0trex]

if ur not comfortable with taking her off him then tell her she needs to sort it out and finish with him, if she isnt happy in the relationship as it is anyway, why is she still in it?

 

[Zen2]

Its not hes a big lad or anything hes just a fair few years older than me but im not worried about that, Its just the fact i feal abit out of order.

As i know if i was him and he was me i would probly want to do something nasty to him for messing about with my girlfriend.

Sticky situation you see.

Cheers though for the replys

/Zen2

 

[Perebble]

How "sticky" exactly?

 

[Prai]

Personally i wouldnt get myself in that situation in the first place, however if i was in that situation id do the right thing and step away, she has to break up with him on her own accord once shes done that...then go for it.

Omg, its like against the law to start seeing a friends ex.

 

[Zen2]

Hes not my friend Prai, Also i wouldnt want to see 1 of my mates ex`s knowing my mate has been there.


Quite *Sticky* quite sticky.

/Zen2

 

[Perebble]

"Sticky" sticky?

 

[Silent]

Omg, its like against the law to start seeing a friends ex.

It happens live with it, my best mate did it to me, needless to say he got his cummupence but anyways...

just because someone is in a relationship and isnt happy doesnt mean its easy to finish it, its far from easy....but if she is unhappy and wants out of it then she has to do it...and until then it would be wrong to interfere.

 

[Resol]

To be honest this thread is ridiculous. You cant take advice from others on weather you should be on this girl or not. The question is do you want to be with her?

@JoeAshton: Who cares if hes big or not? If she gets rid of him its not this guys fault realy, she obviously doesnt like the bloke.

@Prai: Getting with mates ex's is wrong, but it is funny if you get with an ex mates ex.

 

[RedDragonX]

ex mates, mates ex'es are better.

 

[Far]

wheneva a guy tries to get with my gf, i always get real pissed off. and think that he should he more respect since he blatently knows she has a gf.

iv bin through alot. and imo, even if you like the the girl alot then dont mess things up. like someone said, if she finishes the guy first by all means go in there. but dont try and mess things up whilst theyre in a relationship, because thats the most cruel thing to do, how would you like it?

i know how tempting it is, but if youre any man at all, then dont do it, because its just not the nice thing to do.

 

[MoaningMurtle]

I've been in the situation before and its hard both way because she might actually like the other guy too and wont realise how much she does untill she leaves him.

So even if she did brake up with him to get with you she might go back to him feeling that she actually misses him and leaving you with one extra person who dislikes you.

Its happened to me so just be careful

I aggree with what Farril said in the first line because that always happens to me too, guys should have more respect if they know she has a boyfriend, If the shoe was on the other foot and it was a girl coming on to me I'd like to think my girlfriend trust and knows that I'd turn them away purely because if it was the other way round I'd hope she'd do the same.

You must be kind of playing with the girl to make her say she wants to be with you so in a way for already doing the bad thing.

Its funny how people like me and Farril who write alot on the situation, makes me think Farril has had the same sort of stuff happen to him as has happened to me.

 

[Resol]

I suppose I cant realy comment then, as ive never got myself into a deep relationship.

 

[Xanan]

To be honest like, how long have they been together?

If it aint long, get on with it, just make sure she dont take the piss with him.

 

[Resol]

like, er, ya no, like.

Dont matter how long shes been with him, the questions are, do you like her? Does she like you?

 

[^G0trex]

on 2nd thaughts, run away!! if she cheated once, she'll do it again!!!!!

 

[Silent]

on 2nd thaughts, run away!! if she cheated once, she'll do it again!!!!!

QFT

he hit the nail on the head there.

 

[Resol]

Wrong.

Fuck her, then run away. See how she likes it.