For Vista use MSSQL2000
As for the autopatcher, use the .gz packing tool then upload the files and the !klist to either a FTP/HTTP site or both, then copy the address into KaoriPatchGZ.ini so it looks like this:
;=====================================================
KaoriPatchName=AutoPatcher
; URL for your banner accepts GIF,JPG,PNG
KaoriPatchBanner=http://www.mir.com/images/KaoriBanner1.png
; URL for !klist.gz
KaoriPatchListFile=http://www.mir.com/KaoriPatch/!klist.gz
; URL for the gz files must be a directory with / at the end
; Supports http, ftp anonymous, ftp with user/pass
; You can put as many mirrors as you want (they should have the same files)
KaoriPatchServer=http://www.mir.com/KaoriPatch/
KaoriPatchServer=ftp://www.mir.com/KaoriPatch/
KaoriPatchDir=./Data/
KaoriPatchDir=./Map/
KaoriPatchDir=./Wav/
KaoriPatchGameExePath=./Mir2.exe
;=====================================================
Hope this helps