I stopped using condom ages ago, but out of all of them none really did anything more... we both reach where we want to get regardless. I couldn't give a **** as long as I come at some point. Endurance condoms are good, I would imagine they would be awesome for a premature ejaculator too, as I normally last around 30 mins but with one of those things on I can get another 10-20 mins, does make you less horny though.
Flex that tongue and fingers, for those are your tools for giving... your penis is your personal weapon.
Don't worry if you can't give her an orgasm during sex, most women can't. If I'm honest with you I've only ever managed it once, and that's because I was focused on the clitoris rather than penetration - works out to be much harder work for a sensation no different for the woman, other than re-assuring her it *is* possible to come during just takes the piss to get there. That's all for today of Graham's sex 101.